Empowering Women in Golf: Your Beginner-Friendly Guide to Getting Started in Surrey & Langley with a Top Coach

Introduction

Welcome! If you’re a woman in the Surrey–Langley area who’s been curious about golf but hasn’t yet taken the leap, you’re exactly who this is for. My name is Matt Palsenbarg, and I’m a PGA of Canada golf coach working at The Backyard Golf, Haus of Golf and Clayton Hills Par 3. I specialise in welcoming women into the game in a supportive and confidence-building way.

In this guide I’ll walk you through how to begin golf from scratch — focusing on enjoyment, fundamentals, and community. Along the way you’ll see why I’m uniquely placed to help you, and how choosing the right coach (me!) in Surrey/Langley makes all the difference.

Why Golf is a Great Fit for Women

Golf offers so much more than just skill-building. Here are several reasons why it’s especially attractive for women beginners:

• It builds physical strength, flexibility and mental focus.

• It offers a social and friendly environment (many women’s groups and clinics exist).

• It’s accessible at your own pace — you don’t need to be an athlete to start.

• Learning fundamentals (“feel”, posture, balance) often aligns with strengths many women already bring.

• As a coach who works locally in Surrey/Langley, I am committed to creating a welcoming, non-intimidating atmosphere.

Step 1: Get Comfortable & Take the First Swing

What you need to know right away:

• Familiarise yourself with basic golf terms: hole, par, score, tee box.

• You only need a few clubs to start (e.g., a driver or fairway wood, a mid-iron, a wedge, and a putter).

• Choose comfortable, golf-appropriate clothing and shoes — you don’t need full “uniform” gear.

• The best practice locations: on the driving range, putting green and at the locations I coach — Backyard, Haus of Golf, Clayton Hills.

• Most importantly: don’t worry about looking “silly”. Every golfer began as a beginner. My job is to make you feel confident.

Step 2: The Fundamentals of Your Swing

Here are the core foundations we’ll cover in your early lessons:

• Grip: how you hold the club is your connection to the swing.

• Stance & posture: your feet, hips, spine-angle = your foundation.

• Alignment: aiming your body and clubface toward your target.

• Swing phases: setup → motion → finish.

• Common beginner mistakes: poor contact, misalignment, tension in the arms/body. Part of our work together is recognizing and fixing these simply and clearly.

Step 3: Power + Control — Your Advantage

Women’s golf instruction often emphasises rhythm, sequencing and ground-force rather than brute strength.At your pace, we’ll work on:

• How to use rotation and ground contact to generate power.

• How to maintain balance through your swing, which improves contact.

• Drills suited for women: e.g., slow-motion swings, impact drills, tempo work.

• Understanding that control (especially in the short game) often beats distance when you’re

• starting out.

Step 4: Ball Flight & Smart Play

Understanding how the ball flies helps your confidence and strategy. We’ll cover:

• Why the ball curves, rises or rolls (clubface, swing path, loft).

• How to “read” your ball flight to understand what you did right or wrong.

• The difference between hitting straight and hitting smart: When you start, you’ll want to prioritise consistency and smart shot selection over distance.

• On-course mindset: knowing when to play for par, when to play safe.

Step 5: Short Game = Big Impact

Many new golfers underestimate how important chipping, pitching and putting are — but they’re where you’ll see fast progress.Key focuses:

• Chipping: club selection, motion, landing spot.

• Putting: reading greens, controlling speed and distance.

• Simple fun drills you can practise outside a full round (great at the indoor facilities at Backyard or Haus of Golf).

• I’ll structure these drills into your lessons so you can see improvement week-to-week — and feel great doing it.

Step 6: Golf Etiquette, Course Confidence & Community

Starting out is easier when you feel comfortable on the course and with other players.Things we’ll cover:

• Basic rules & etiquette: pace of play, safety, ready golf.

• Mindset: dealing with nerves, normalising mistakes, staying positive.

• Playing social rounds: I can help you with ladies-clinics or group lessons locally.

• Community: You’ll find other women learning and playing — I’ll introduce you to groups at Backyard, Haus of Golf and Clayton Hills.

• My promise: you’ll never feel left out or overwhelmed.

Step 7: Getting Set Up — Gear + Environment

You don’t need to buy everything upfront. My recommendation:

• Start with a women’s beginner set (driver, mid-iron(s), wedge, putter) if you don’t have clubs yet.

• When you’re ready, I offer club-fitting and equipment advice to match your swing and comfort.

• Shoes: comfortable walking shoes with good grip.

• Practice environment: I coach indoor (Haus of Golf, Backyard) and outdoor (Clayton Hills) so weather and season are covered.

Step 8: 3-Month Beginner Plan (tailored for you)

Here’s a roadmap we’ll follow together

Month 1:

• Setup, posture, grip, basic swings.

• Short game: putting & chipping fundamentals.

• Two practice sessions + one group session each week.

Month 2:

• Full swing development: irons, woods.

• On-course introduction: par-3 hole(s) at Clayton Hills.

• Drill focus: contact, alignment, ball flight awareness.

Month 3:

• Strategy & play: select holes, reading greens, managing your game.

• Social round: I’ll coach you while you play with an experienced partner or group.

• Review progress, set next goals (e.g., play 9 holes confidently).

Why Choose Me as Your Coach?

• Local: I’m based in the Surrey/Langley area and work specifically at The Backyard Golf, Haus of Golf and Clayton Hills Par 3 — so convenience & consistency for you.

• Experienced & supportive: I specialise in supporting women beginners — creating a positive, judgement-free learning environment.

• Proven progress: I’ve helped many women go from ’never touched a club’ to confidently playing and enjoying rounds.

• SEO & location targeted: If you’ve searched for “women beginner golf coach Surrey”, “golf lessons Langley women” or similar — you found me. My website and blog will help you stay connected and get found locally.

• Community focus: You won’t just take lessons. I’ll connect you with women’s clinics, group sessions and social rounds to help you stay engaged.

Call to Action

Ready to take the first step?

• Book your introductory consultation with me — we’ll chat about your goals, comfort level and schedule.

• Choose the location that's best for you: Backyard at Clayton Hills or Haus of Golf

• Bring a positive mindset — leave the rest to me.

You’re not just learning golf — you’re joining a community, building skills, and creating a new experience. Let’s make your golf journey fun, confident, and tailored for you.

Book now or contact me at [email/phone/website link].

About the Author + Credentials (E-E-A-T)

I’m Matt Palsenbarg a certified golf coach operating in the Surrey-Langley region, offering personalised instruction for women beginners and intermediate golfers. I hold PGA of Canada, and have over 20+ years of coaching experience at The Backyard Golf. I continuously update my teaching methodology based on the latest performance science and techniques, so you get coaching grounded in evidence, driven by results, and tailored for your goals.

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I hope this blog serves as your first step toward a rewarding and enjoyable golf journey. I look forward to meeting you on the range or course soon!